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It's not easy visiting a new church for the first time.
Sometimes you feel a little awkward. Do I belong here? Am I really
welcome? Will the people be unfriendly, or too friendly? Will I be
conspicuous? Will it be easy to leave if I don't enjoy it? Will they ask
me for money? Will my kids enjoy it? How should I dress? Am I welcome
if I don't think the same?
As one of the pastors, I want to make visiting Vero Vineyard an
enjoyable experience that is stress-free and relaxing... and even fun!
Many of the folks here at the Vineyard were in the same place as you not
long ago, visiting the church for the first time themselves. So, what
can you expect when visiting the Vineyard? Let me give you a brief
overview:
When you arrive at our new ministry center, located at 1505 20th
Street, feel free to park in the lot in the front or back of the
building. You will see signs that tell you where to enter. If you park
in the back there are walkways on either side of the building to get you
to the front door.
As you walk in our all new "Vineyard Cafe, you'll likely bump into
some friendly people (we call them "greeters") who will greet you, say
hello, offer you a bulletin, answer any questions you have, and direct
you to the meeting room, where we have our service. On your way, don't forget to stop and have coffee, hot chocolate and a
breakfast roll during our "Java-lujah" time. If you have kids, they'll
let you know about our Children's Church and Nursery (which are also
well-marked with clear signs).
If your kids are more comfortable, they're welcome to attend the adult
service with you, but if they're up for it they'll likely have a great
time in Jesus Junction Children's Church. Our Kid's Church ministry is
led by a fantastic group of people completely committed to teach and
reflect God's love to the kids. Their service begins after worship, at
which time you'll notice the teachers gathering them together to go to
the kid's room. Parents will also be able to enjoy our Nursery, where
you will be able to drop your child (infant thru age 4) off and our
Nursery staff will care for them while you stay in the Worship service;
or you will be able to care for your child yourself. There is a live TV
monitor in the Nursery where you will be able to see and hear the AM
message.
You'll soon notice that everyone is dressed comfortably, in anything
from "office casual" to jeans and sneakers. Many come in shorts and
sandals. We want everyone to come as they are, so dress in whatever
fashion makes you feel most at home.
Once you pass from the Cafe into our main sanctuary you will be
warmed by the inviting appearance of the auditorium, and you will
find the individual seating comfortable and generous. The service begins
at 10am with about 30 minutes of contemporary music from our worship
band. During this time the congregation will sing along with the band,
following the lyrics displayed on the dual multi-media screens. This is a
time where you are free to just sing or you can lift and clap your
hands. Many people find this portion of the service extremely moving and
often you will observe tears glistening on a number of cheeks. This is
generally followed by a transitional prayer. On many occassions these
prayers become prophetic in nature, and will often confirm (without
prior collaboration) some of the message themes that will follow. We
then share some brief announcements about upcoming church events.
Then,
I (or another speaker) will begin the message. I usually speak for
about 35-45 minutes, and I do my best to make the messages interesting,
enjoyable and relevant to daily life. Our method of presentation is more
of a "teaching" style rather than preaching. You will generally be
able to follow the Scripture quotations and message outline by watching
our colorful PowerPoints presentation on the overhead screens. The
message will be based on the Bible, and I will often
include illustrations(some humorous) from my own experience, and then
attempt to make appropriate applications to all of our lives. If I do my
job right, you'll hear timeless truths from the Bible that make sense
for today's world. Hopefully, you will experience God speaking to your
heart thru the message.
After I've shared, I typically close in prayer and invite people to
reflect for a moment on how the message might have intersected with
their lives. People are free to sit, stand, or even come to the front of
the church where we have trained "ministry team" folks (both men and
women) who will be happy to pray for whatever you'd like. All this is
done in a non-hyped, discreet manner.
The service almost always ends by 11:30am (and believe it or not, the
time will really fly.) After the service, your kids will be brought
back into the main room. If you're able to, feel free and stick around a
few minutes... meet some people and enjoy some coffee and pastries at
the Vineyard Cafe. Church is about God and worship, but it's also about
community and compassion, so we hope people really experience warmth and
friendliness at the Vineyard.
That's about it. People constantly tell me that they really felt
comfortable, and that they connected with God and His purposes for them
sometime in the service. That makes it all worth it!
I hope you'll stop by this Sunday!
Tony Valentino, Vision & Teaching Pastor
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